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Know Your Neighbors: The Good, the Bad and the Ugly

A calm guide to knowing the people on your street, setting kind limits, and building one reliable relationship before you need it

You do not need a committee. You need one good neighbor, a signal and a plan.

• Free
• No sign-up
• 8 pages
• Worksheets you fill in
• Plain English

Who it is for

Anyone who wants to feel safer and steadier at home, especially older adults, people with health limits, people who live alone and the families who look out for them.

What you get

• A one-page version of the whole guide: 12 plain actions, in order.
• The three conversations that build a circle on your street, with words a shy person can say.
• A check-in signal and a daily contact, and a Check-in card for the fridge.
• Three questions that show who your reliable neighbors are: would they notice, would they act, would they respect a limit.
• Kind sentences for the neighbor who takes more than they give.
• What to do, and who to call, if a neighbor threatens or frightens you. Why you never confront.
• A first-hour routine for an outage, storm or heat wave.
• Sources at the end, so you can check anything for yourself.

From the channel

• Your House Is a Base, Not a Prison: How to "Fortify Quietly" Before Things Break (opens in a new tab)
• Your Backpack Won't Save You: The Real Survival Strategy for Older Adults (Part 1) (opens in a new tab)

Want to go deeper?

The free personal plan builds a checklist around your household, and the paid guides cover single situations in depth.